First of all, Congratulations!! You have found the love of your life and are planning to spend the rest of your lives together!!! Nothing could be more exciting!!!
When you are finally able to peel yourself away from staring at that sparkly rock on your finger, it’s time to start (or continue!) putting your wedding dreams down on paper! I’ve even got a super cute printable to help you think through the whole process in a super easy (and organized!) way.
When you close your eyes and dream about your perfect High Country wedding day, what do you see? Indoors or out? Do you have a specific venue in mind? Is it candle lit or in the middle of the day? Are you surrounding by everyone you’ve ever met, or is it close friends and family only? Are you planning on staying close to home for a Charlotte Wedding or are you dreaming of a destination wedding? Take some time to run wild with your imagination and dream up a big dream. You can always whittle it down to the ‘must haves’ as you go.
Do you have a venue that you absolutely must have? Maybe you’ve seen a certain photographers work and you’ve got to have them. Or maybe, you know that it just wouldn’t be your wedding day without peonies blooming on every table. Whatever your priorities are, write those down and make your date (and budget) selections based on these top priorities.
Now, you’ve got a basic idea of what you want your wedding to look like and what your top priorities are. Go ahead and book those top priority vendors and then start filling in the gaps of what’s missing. Maybe your venue was a top priority but it ended up being more than you expected, you can shave money off other aspects of your wedding day that aren’t as important to you (like foregoing guest favors or maybe don’t have an open bar?). There are tons of ways to save money without skimping on the things that are most important to you.
From this past bride to you, let me tell you what I regretted skimping money on the most.
I know I’m a photographer, so I’m a bit biased, but when you get back from your honeymoon and realize that all those months of planning the perfect font for your invitation suite are over, you’ll realize that the only thing you have left to remember your wedding day are your photos, your wedding dress, and your memories (and your hubs of course!). 10 years from now your memories may be a little hazy and your dress probably won’t fit but those photos (and video!) will bring it all back. Don’t skimp on the memories, friends.
Ashley Sue is a Charlotte based High Country Wedding Photographer specializing in capturing the moments in between the posing. Ashley is energetic, optimistic, and a perpetual romantic. While Ashley has photographed weddings nationwide from simple church ceremonies to elaborate ballroom receptions; Ashley’s authentic + joyful style shines brightest in outdoor locations and architecturally rich surroundings in the High Country of North Carolina.
Ashley is available for travel world-wide + is passport ready. To view Ashley’s bucket list of locations available for travel cost only, click HERE. (coming soon)
To learn more about Ashley, her family, her faith, and her ridiculous obsession with all things Disney,
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