Does the thought of putting together an extensive timeline of who goes where and when totally stress you out? If it does, you are not alone. It’s quite the task to try and figure out exactly how much time each activity is going to take, how much buffer time to build in, and how in the world are you going to get everything accomplished before the ceremony, much less within that 8 or 10 hour timeframe you’ve got your photographer for?
I’ve got 4 words for you — you. can. do. it.
I’m going to let you in on my top secret formula for building the perfect timeline for my brides. It involves a little math, some prep work, and one detailed list (because you know if it’s coming from me, there will be a list involved!).
1. Start with the ceremony + sunset times.
The ceremony is an obvious one, but it’s also super important to make a note of the sunset time if you want those gorgeous golden glow photos. Often, this requires a quick minute away from your reception, but I promise you it is worth it. We can take as little or as long as you want, but I recommend between 10-30 minutes on average. This is especially important if you didn’t have a first look, or if there wasn’t a scheduled time for separate Bride + Groom portraits earlier in the day.
2. Add in length of ceremony, desired start of reception, and family formal times.
The best time for family formal photos is after the ceremony. Some people who have had a first look will request family formals prior to the ceremony and that can work, however it’s important to remember that you and your bridal party will likely be ‘hiding’ away about 45 minutes prior to the start of the ceremony in order to avoid those early arriving guests and also just to give yourself some time to refresh before the ceremony. That means that everyone you want in your family formals will need to be there at least an hour (more likely an hour and a half) before the ceremony for photos.
In my opinion, if you’re trying to maximize your time at your cocktail hour/reception by moving family formals, the best way to do that is to,
a) have a first look
b) get all bridal party and immediate family portraits before the ceremony
c) schedule at least 20 minutes of Bride + Groom portraits.
The time for extended Family Formal Photos completely depends on the size of your family, which is why I always ask my Bride’s to make an extensive list of each family grouping they want photographed during this time. Here is the general time allotment I estimate for family formals:
Immediate Family – 2 minutes
Extended Family – 1 minutes per family group
Grandparents w/ limited mobility – 2 minutes per grandparent
Children only (cousins, niece/nephews, etc.) – 1 minute per 3 children + 1 minute per add’tl child
‘Group Photo Only’ Family – 2 minutes per 10 people
Here’s how it breaks down in a real life situation:
Bride’s Family
Parents + 2 siblings = 2 minutes
Sister, Brother-in-law + 2 kids = 1 minutes
Brother, Sister-in-law + 1 kid = 1 minutes
3 Grandparents = 6 minutes
Aunt, Uncle + 3 cousins = 1 minutes
Aunt, Uncle + 2 cousins = 1 minutes
Great Aunt + Uncle = 1 minutes
2 adult cousins = 1 minutes
5 child cousins = 3 minutes
1 Group Photo with 10 additional family members = 4 minutes
21 minutes
Groom’s Family
Mom, Step Dad + 3 siblings = 2 minutes
Groom’s Dad, Step Mom + 3 siblings = 2 minutes
Groom’s 2 Grandparents = 4 minutes
Aunt, Uncle + 2 cousins = 1 minute
1 Group Photo with 7 additional family members = 4 minutes
13 minutes
Total Time for Family Portraits = 34 minutes
I know that seems quick, but I promise, I will get you some gorg photos and knock those out like I’m throwing back a Starbucks Venti Iced Macchiato. This is why you hired a professional
3. Add in any travel times.
Trust me, you do not want to forget these. And be sure to accommodate for traffic.
4. Now, work backwards.
*in this scenario, the Bridal Party is getting ready at the venue so there is no travel time*
1:00 pm – Bride + Bridesmaids getting ready
1:30 pm – Details Photographed
2:30 pm – Groom + Groomsmen getting ready
2:45 pm – Bride getting in dress
3:15 pm – First Look and Bride/Groom Portraits
3:45 pm – Bridal Party Formal Portraits
4:14 pm – Bridal Party in Hiding
5:00 pm – Ceremony
5:45 pm – Family Formals
6:30 pm – Reception Entrance
7:30 pm – Sneak away for sunset photos (sunset @ 8:02pm)
11:00 pm – Grand Exit
The Final Step —
Share your timeline with everyone, literally everyone, and make sure that they know when to be there and give them addresses of where to be, along with the cell phone number of a point of contact they can reach in an emergency (someone that’s not you though!).
Other things to keep in mind:
- Talk to your Hair and Make-Up Stylist about how much time they need, they will definitely need to start before the photographer gets there.
- If your friends/groom/family/etc. have a tendency to run late, don’t feel bad about telling them a way earlier time to be there than you really need them!
- and lastly, things will probably go wrong and you might run late – it’s okay! I’ve done weddings with only 5 minutes for Bridal Party photos and they still had plenty to choose from. When you hire a professional, you get their experience and their ability to work under pressure. Any situation can be handled, literally anything. Like I’ve said before; at the end of the day you’ll still be married to the love of your life, and if you’re not? I will personally drive you to the closest airport to hop a flight to Vegas.
You’ve got this, girlfriend!!! XOXO
Ashley Sue is a Charlotte based High Country Wedding Photographer specializing in capturing the moments in between the posing. Ashley is energetic, optimistic, and a perpetual romantic. While Ashley has photographed weddings nationwide from simple church ceremonies to elaborate ballroom receptions; Ashley’s authentic + joyful style shines brightest in outdoor locations and architecturally rich surroundings in the High Country of North Carolina.
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